Purposeful In Pink: A story of newfound hope and faith as part of Breast Cancer Awarness Month
A cancer diagnosis can feel like a life sentence, but for Sandra Moreno it has become her life’s purpose. Moreno is a Case Manager II, with Methodist Healthcare Ministries of South Texas Inc. – she is also wife, mother, and breast cancer survivor; it’s a path she does not walk alone. Before the end of 2024, more than 300,000 women will likely receive a breast cancer diagnosis. During October, stories of survival and remembrance are shared as part of Breast Cancer Awareness Month. It is also a crucial time to exchange resources and encourage mammograms. Moreno is reflecting on her battle with breast cancer—a journey that led her to discover newfound strength and faith.
A Familiar Foe
In 2000, Moreno’s father was diagnosed with prostate cancer; her older sister also battled a form of Non-Hodgkin lymphoma, and in 2017 stage 1 breast cancer. Given her family’s medical history, Moreno wanted to know if she could be at risk, “I had tested when my sister was diagnosed and did not meet any of the family genetics at that time.” However, Moreno said cancer “can be silent.” Towards the end of 2020, she began to feel a change in her body. Moreno decided to wait for her annual exam, which was scheduled in May 2021. That appointment led to a mammogram, and biopsy; Moreno later learned she had stage 2 breast cancer. She recalls the phone call that changed her life forever, “One of my triplet sons was with me at home when my doctor called me with the results. It was not an easy call, as he cried on the phone with me. My son held me until my husband came home. We sat and cried, and I still see us in those dark moments of uncertainty.” Although her doctors said her cancer was treatable, she was plagued with emotions and fear of “dying, leaving my family, worry, anger, feeling alone.”
The Long Journey Ahead
Moreno’s cancer was considered aggressive which meant her treatment would be as well. She required a port and chemotherapy, which took a toll on her body, “I was not able to work long at the office after five days of chemo—the effects were terrible. I was weak, frail, tired, not eating, nauseated and could not be far from the bathroom. Eating was the hardest. Smells made me sick so my family could not cook. I developed chemo rash in my face that was very painful, I could not be in the sun, and these were all effects I could not control.” Although her days were filled with uncertainty she found comfort in her family, neighbors, and MHM team members. Moreno eventually had a double-mastectomy and reconstruction in December of 2021, “I spent six weeks recovering and needed extensive physical therapy. I worked hard every day. My goal was to return to running, as I had been running half marathons for fun.”
Pain to Purpose
Her journey to remission was not easy, but she is aware not everyone is able to share their experience, “I have lost so many around me from other cancers; I cry for them.” Moreno’s outlook on life changed, and so did her purpose. She is part of Methodist Healthcare Ministries’ Refresh Campaign, a fundraising initiative that benefits several organizations. She also leads the efforts for the American Cancer Society, “I have presented to internal departments, met privately with team members, clients, shared my books, information and the will to fight.” She remains thankful for her loved ones and the faith that carried her through, “I had the power of prayers around me. We need to lean on each other, and everyone does it their way.”
The road to being a cancer survivor is often paved with struggle and heartache. For Moreno, those moments will be etched in her mind forever, “Not too many know of my bad days, how I was sick, how I didn’t want company, how I cried many times.” However, her journey is also filled with strength and perseverance. Moreno hopes to shine a light for others during their dark days, “It is time to show others how much one can do on the other side. They can fight and they can come out stronger.” Moreno is filled with hope, and a stronger sense of faith; she reminds others, “they are not alone.”
